We all know that Valentine’s Day (or Singles’ Awareness Day, as I’ve heard it called) is fast approaching. It’s hard not to ignore it with school banners, stores selling all things pink and red, and those around us that are in relationships preparing for that special day. Sometimes, when not in a current romantic relationship, it’s hard not to get a little down when this holiday approaches. It can be tempting to rent a chick flick, grab some chocolate, and have a pity party. Where are you at on this holiday? Are you in a relationship? Is it complicated? Are you single? No matter where you might be, I have a challenge for you: Have a date with Jesus!
That might have surprised you at first, and it may be tempting to ignore this challenge, but I hope you bear with me as I explain why you should do this.
It’s easy to get caught up in Valentine’s Day and put too much emphasis on this holiday. For those that are in relationships, it can be hard not to obsess about what the day may look like and where you'll go with your boyfriend. On the other hand, those that are single may obsess about their lack of boyfriend and plans. Either way, too much focus can be spent on this day and a date with Jesus just might be the very thing to put your priorities straight.
Make this date fun! I’ve had “Jesus dates” before and I always have a blast. Close yourself in your room or someplace secluded that you know you won’t get interrupted. Dim the lights, get some of your favorite chocolate, or other favorite sweet, and maybe light a candle. Put some soft music on and pull out the best Valentines letter you’ll ever receive-the Bible. Consider reading Psalm 139 and think about how much God loves you. Write in your journal what sticks out to you and then pray over it.
God knows you better than any boy ever will and He loves you beyond comprehension. He longs to spend time with you. He cares about you. He loves you.
So whether you’re in a relationship or not, set some time aside this Valentines to spend with Jesus. Be prepared for a special night.
In Christ,
Madison
